Selecting an NLP Trainer
By Roger Ellerton Phd, ISP, CMC, Renewal Technologies Inc. www.renewal.ca
I was wondering what to write for this month’s article when I received an e-mail from Peter in Australia asking for advice in choosing an NLP trainer. Once I had replied to him, I thought, “What a great idea for an article.” So here are my thoughts, based on my experiences as a student of NLP and as someone who earns part of his living as an NLP trainer. In no particular order, this is what I would look for:
- Make sure your trainer is a certified NLP trainer and not just a Master Practitioner.
- Ensure that the trainer’s values are in alignment with your own – interview him/her in person, by phone or e-mail.
- Ask for references. Realize your potential NLP trainer will only give you names of people who enjoyed his/her training. However if you ask enough questions and listen for what is not said, you can discover a great deal about the trainer and his/her training.
- Determine who will actually be delivering the training. Some organizations have big names attend their NLP training for a morning or afternoon to speak on a particular subject. Sometimes this module is not fully integrated into the training and you may be better off attending a presentation by this big name at a later date when you have a better understanding of NLP and can ask specific questions of him/her.
- Address your own personal growth. For me, NLP training must include my own personal growth, therefore I would ask, “Do I feel safe with this trainer?”
- Determine the size of the class. Some NLP trainers have small intimate trainings (10 - 25 students), others put as many in the room as possible and use untested Master Practitioners as coaches during the exercises and breakout sessions. Yes, you get a well known signature on your certificate and how much value did you really receive from the training?
- Ask for an outline of the course and if the training has a particular focus - hypnosis, NLP New Code, NLP in business, coaching, personal growth, and so on. Pick a training that is in alignment with your interests.
- Establish what support is available after your training - telephone assistance, one-on-one coaching, etc. Some NLP trainers provide on-going support at little or no cost; other trainers, particularly those with large classes, can’t even remember that you were in their course.
- Ascertain the training team’s credibility - written NLP articles, books, given public presentations - or are they ‘wanta be’s’ operating out of their basement? Will your potential NLP trainer will be in business over the long-term? I have seen too many well-intentioned NLP trainers get into the business and then disappear within a year.
- Assess if you are getting value for your money. Paying a high price does not mean the training is better.
- Ensure the certificate that you receive is recognized by at least one major NLP body. There is no one certifying body in NLP.
- Determine the length of the training and what it involves. NLP practitioner training should involve at least 120 hours of study. This can include pre-study, homework, special coaching sessions and classroom time. Make sure there is sufficient classroom time for you to interact with the trainers and to practice the NLP techniques.
- Verify the ratio of certified NLP trainers to participants and ratio of coaches to participants.
- Make sure the training organization you select stands behind their program.
Enjoy your NLP training. It is well-worth your investment.
The Five Steps for Success
By Roger Ellerton Phd, ISP, CMC, Renewal Technologies Inc. www.renewal.ca
1. Have an Outcome (Goal).
You should have an outcome for everything you do. Choosing to do nothing or to wander through life is an outcome - realize you chose it and ask yourself ‘How well is [...] Continue Reading…
The Structure of Reality
By Roger Ellerton Phd, ISP, CMC, Renewal Technologies Inc. www.renewal.ca
What is Reality? Why is it that some people see something as possible (within their reality) and others totally discount it?
Your Perception of the World is Your Reality
In previous articles (NLP Communication Model Part I and II), [...] Continue Reading…
What is NLP?
By Roger Ellerton Phd, ISP, CMC, Renewal Technologies Inc. www.renewal.ca
As a certified NLP trainer, I am often asked ‘What is NLP?’
The term NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming and was coined in the early seventies by John Grinder and Richard Bandler. They began their work by studying: [...] Continue Reading…
Effectively Influence with Integrity
By Roger Ellerton Phd, ISP, CMC, Renewal Technologies Inc. www.renewal.ca
Each and every day, a large percentage of our communication is focused on influencing or encouraging people (including ourselves) to buy or buy-into an idea, request, service or product. For example: mulling over the possibility of buying [...] Continue Reading…
Case Study - 5 sessions
5 Session case study and feedback.
In the clients own words. It is quite long, so I‘ll send the 2 original emails in their entirety, separately. Expect the other one tomorrow.
Herewith the email I got from Rothney after his first three Clearing [...] Continue Reading…
Part 2 of the feedback from my client, Rothney. Again, in his own words…
Hi there Jonathan
I continue with my story regarding my Optamind Sessions with you.
Session 4.
Its Session Saturday morning again and were up early. Jonathan is always ready with a cup of tea, [...] Continue Reading…
How to give “tough messages,” and still be liked and respected
Providing feedback to staff is always tough, but if it’s “constructive,” you not only get the message across, but, build a more cohesive and capable team as a result.
Do you remember when your parents told you to eat your [...] Continue Reading…
How to Break Bad Habits
What are your bad habits?
Smoking? Talking too much? Drinking? Untidiness?
We’ve all got them.
Within this article are 5 simple reasons for breaking a bad habit.
If it ain’t broke, break it, and if it won’t break, then bend it
Bad habits.
Whether it’s a perpetual [...] Continue Reading…
Quick and easy ways to Maximise Confidence, Feel Happier, Get More Done and a Be a Star!
1. Think about someone who is confident and act, talk and walk like him or her. Model their mannerisms and behaviour. It works for them; it will work for you.
2. Smile a lot more. That [...] Continue Reading…
Feel free to send this to anyone that may be interested in healing or Eric Pearls’ work.
The Reconnection and Reconnective Healing is something new, different and real.
It is. I saw it in action. I felt it in my hands, and I think it’s great.
As someone that has not [...] Continue Reading…
Attention : All Die-Hard Personal Growth Junkies – and other interested parties.
Not Following Through on your goals is not your fault (entirely)!!
How many personal growth books and CD’s have you bought and read? How many courses and seminars have you attended? And how much of the promised benefits have [...] Continue Reading…
This is some information which will be part of the 10 lesson Meditation course I’m busy developing. The purpose is to harness the power of traditional techniques and combine them with the Optamind meditation soundtracks. I have been experimenting with a few and I found it tremendously enjoyable. I [...] Continue Reading…
Hi Jonathan,
Just wondering what your take is on supplements? Tony Robbins thinks it’s a waste, but I have seen nutrition expert Patrick Holford swear by them. And there are so many to choose from… What do you recommend?
Thx, Peter
Hi Peter,
I disagree with Anthony Robbins just this one time. In [...] Continue Reading…
Thank you for visting my website. I appreciate that you have taken the time to either listen to the Optamind demo, or read the pages on my site.
My guess is that you were attracted to the site by the promise of greater peace, happiness and success, by getting into [...] Continue Reading…